Do You Really Want Help?

Recently when meeting with a client they unleashed the turmoil of grievances that had befallen them.  

None of these were of the natural kind, meaning ones that had befallen them from outside their control.

Everything was in their control. The job they worked, the health they wanted, the toxic relationships they were allowing.

You can read all the self-help books you like, attend seminars and visit a regular psychologist but none if it will make an iota of difference if you do not want help.

Most people would rather be right than successful.

Most people would rather stay trapped by their story than see the real them overcome the adversity.

The question you must ask is do you really want help to be a better version of yourself or do you just think you want that?

Your next action step will prove your answer.

Vaughan.